Well, I ended my association with on-line dating the other week. Its just no longer for me. I spoke to a lot of good people, but nothing had a spark, no romantic thoughts either from myself or from the opposite sex.

I think people have this idealistic view that with on-line dating, they are going to meet a mirror image of themselves. Or someone who is everything they wanted and all boxes are ticked. Its impossible and a relationship would be boring without diversity. Most women I spoke to look for the impossible.

Perhaps I was looking for the impossible as well.

Every woman wants a nice guy. There is no such thing. Ive mentioned in this blog before that all men are bastards but on various levels. The same applies to women because in my opinion there is no such thing as nice . Everyone has a dark side, we have hurt and been hurt. Its human nature.